What is cuckolding?
I am a swinger, cuckolding wife and a hotwife. My husband shares me proudly, watches, films and watches me again and again. Cuckolding is when a husband makes another man have sex with his wife in his presence or when a wife has sex with another in the presence of her husband. Hotwife is when the husband proudly shares his wife to show off his trophy. I am a hotwife that loves to cuckold.So whether the husband initiates the wife’s sexual relationship or the wife initiates, the husband is the cuckold. There is no mention of a husband watching them together, that probably comes from another story and not by definition. The word comes from Old English and Old French word ‘Cucuault’ where Cucu means the bird cuckoo. The bird cuckoo never builds a nest and lays its eggs in other’s nests, making it an adulterer.
The first-ever description of Cuckolding comes from the life of the Greek goddess Aphrodite. Here is a story about Aphrodite from mythology:
Aphrodite: The First Lusty Lover
Aphrodite is my mentor and guru of lovemaking. Like her, at Hedo, I am the goddess of love, lust and never stop mating. I do not have a magic girdle like her. It is my blemishless smooth skin, ample shapely natural breasts, and sluttiness that attracts both men and women to me. Some cannot take their eyes off me, and once they touch me cannot take their hands off me.
Aphrodite was married to Hephaestus, but she never gave up her lusty ways of fucking with other men. When Hephaestus came to know about Aphrodite’s relationship with Ares, he created a trap for them and watched them have sex; he became the first Cuckold.
With that being the story of the first cuckold, my husband and I always fantasized about him being a cuckold. Having made me his Aphrodite, he could not keep me just to himself. I always thought that I was beautiful Venus – being Taurean, and after 25 years of erotic marriage ready to be Aphrodite – an adulteress. It did not take me much persuasion to move over to becoming his Aphrodite. We obviously could not swing where ordinary mortals live, though it is becoming commonplace now – we have also read Jon Gross’s story. Hedo is the perfect place to live our cuckolding life.
Our Swinger Cuckolding Rules:
At Hedo, we have only two rules – I am the boss and refer back to rule number one when in doubt. Whatever I say is final? No argument, no questions asked. I will be his adulteress wife as long as this rule works. Both can choose who to approach, but my decision is final. Until now, I have not said no to anyone – I like them all. On our first two trips, we were getting used to getting naked and having sex in public – didn’t think of sex with another. Many made proposals, but not being a full swinger we did not pick up the subtle hints until was too late. I get many proposals, but the direct ones get the early access. So our approach is direct. Everyone goes to Hedo for similar reasons – so no harm in politely asking.
During our third and last trip to Hedo 3, before it closed down, I was asked once in a direct manner. I allowed him to give me oral and some finger play, but things didn’t go any further.
When we went to Hedo 2 next year, I was ready to be approached. The idea was to do something at the dinner table to look approachable and available. Encouraged by my husband the couple sitting with us started to feel me with people looking at me. I allowed them to feel and suck on my breasts at the table. It was a toga night and reaching, fondling and sucking my breasts was easy for them. Even at Hedo, this does not happen often enough – and did not go unnoticed. Someone sitting around us had noticed, and as we got into the hot tub later, he was there.
Before I could say anything, I had spread my legs, and he was giving me the most wonderful oral I have ever had. My husband is pretty good at it, but there is nothing like tasting the forbidden tongue. As he moved his tongue in my juicy cunt, I was writhing with pleasure. He swirled his tongue in my pussy; tongue fucked me with little brushes on my clitoris. I was laying on the ledge, my feet touching water and my head resting on the lap of my husband under the open sky. As I pressed my vagina more into his face, he would move back a little, not giving me all that I wanted, savoring the moment, withdrawing when I wanted more.
After losing count of time, he met my thrusts with his movement, and I ground my pussy onto his face with loud moans I was coming and falling from the sky, hurtling downward, feeling the free fall that was a massive orgasm. I was going to enjoy my swinger life; my husband will cuckold me into it. I did not have sex with him that day, as we did not have a condom that day. My husband fucked me while I sucked his wonderful big hard black cock, getting it ready for another day.
First Year – Baby Steps to Cuckolding
My husband arranged with someone through the forum for a sexy rendezvous. The guy got us excited about our first cuckolding experience. There was also a second appointment. One of them was coming in only for two days, so the first two days were given to him. We booked the third day with the second person, with tight schedules. Both appointments failed as the first guy never showed up. The second guy got tired of waiting, and we could not meet. I started having doubts about cuckolding. Familiar questions – all the clichés and myths about what guys look for in women age, shape, the color started clouding my mind, and I almost gave up and did not wish to return to Hedo.
However, some wonderful things happened the next few days that changed my mind and gave me a lot more confidence. Large bubbly bear became my friend. All he wanted was to massage me and give me oral. He did not/could not do anything else. Sometimes he took two Cialis to come and try, and nothing could do it for him. What he did was to attract a host of other men to me at the hot tub by treating me like a princess and fondling me all over. He worked for my popularity, and his excessive sexual attentions got the message around that I was available to play. He became my Hedo husband.
There was another kind man who was as gentle as Buddha. He would lock his eyes with mine for hours and give me oral for hours but never asked for sex. Only the next year we got into sex, and then he moved away with his new girlfriend. Later, we saw him a couple of times, but he was now committed and is a good friend.
Second Year: Confirmation of My Swinger Lifestyle
The bubbly bear was now a constant. He wanted to give me a massage and oral every day. I like him, but it was stopping access to other interactions. I liked both him and Buddha and was happy alternating between them. There were a couple of other interactions, mainly soft in the hot tub area. I was not prepared to go to other’s rooms or take anyone to our room. Life was getting to be rote – I was getting enough attention not to get any bolder. Buddha proposed sex and I had my first cuckolding sex session with him. First time I had had sex with another man – still a bit guilty of being a slut, but enjoyed it thoroughly and wished to do more.
Third Year: Almost Gave Up the Swinger Lifestyle
For the first time in our entire married life we were on vacation without a meeting of minds. He wanted his adulteress; I was becoming conservative as I wanted men to come to me rather than we go to them. Things started to work against us this time. A constant companion was perceived to be not free for others. I was losing confidence that I was attractive to men for sex. Sticking with the same group prevents accessibility to others. We were having great fun with our group, but they were not into hard swinging. We got home losing interest in each other and the whole idea of vacationing at Hedo. For the first time, we did not book for the next year and did not talk about it for the next six months, almost as if it is the end of a chapter.
Fourth Year: Back with a Bang in Full Swing
The fourth year: We had to go back. We have never taken a failure in our relationship. My adulteress instinct and his cuckolding instincts started to raise their heads simultaneously, and we had to talk. A summary of our agreement:
- During Hedo time, our hours are split daily – one hour for what he wants to do and 23 hours what I want to do
- He will scan and show me a likely interest target. If I am okay, he will make the approach
- We go to his or our room
- Get away from our groups after an afternoon The evening and night times are ours.
- No anal and no swallowing semen
And we went back at the same time. Freed of all inhibitions and encouraged to explore my sexuality to the fullest, on this trip things started to happen. As I let go of all tensions and accepted that I was indeed Aphrodite, attractions seemed to happen on their own. As always he booked a few appointments of interested men at the Forum. But no firm commitment from either side. Meet, greet and decide at the time and take it from there.
On our first evening, our host comes to see us at the hot tub, with fear and nervousness writ large on his face and body. There was some giant of a man one desperate to meet us. To him, looking at my petite body, looked like I would go back home with broken ribs. Indeed he was very big and very interested, and we took him to our room with some apprehension. Gorillas are gentle creatures, and more often than not all giants are gentle. There are ways to get your weight on others rather than taking their weight on you. We had sex with the woman on top, where his weight was not a problem, as I rode him with great aplomb.
Two other strategic changes that worked for us. Our sex sessions could be either pre-lunch, pre-dinner or after dinner. The main reason for this is that most of us are drunk after 11, libidos are generally lower. There are other attractions to attend to and feel left out from the crowd between 11 and two if we are locked in our rooms. Libidos are low after 11 – what with all the activities during the day and evening. Those are our preferred times, but anything is possible at any time. Second, we will change the holiday timing to make new friends and acquaintances and revel in new environments. They worked like magic.
Our holidays were now getting better by the year. Every morning Jay wakes me up with a sensual massage and gives me an oral until I wake up with an orgasm. Breakfast is from 9.00 to 10.00. We get to the nude pool about 10.30 a.m. and are on our first drinks by 11.00. Sometimes I get proposed to at the breakfast table – we fix an appointment and place to meet. Some of the pre-lunch sessions go so long that we miss lunch and make do with what is available at the prude grill. In the nude pool, we have a favorite corner in the shade at the edge of the bar and the pantry. From there we survey the area for interesting single males, that may or may not be available and for those who are lustily staring at me.
I go with married men only after I get express permissions from their wives. After identifying a target, one of us approaches and chat up the guy until we get to the point of main interest. Depending on what either side is doing, we fix an appointment About 1.00 p.m. we leave the nude pool, and either go for lunch or the rendezvous. If the session is long, we take a nap for about an hour and head to the hot tub at about 5.00 p.m. Our favorite time at Hedo is between 5.00 to 7.00 p.m. where the hot tub is full, and every corner has an orgy in progress. I get my share of molests at the hot tub, either with an ex or with someone who is currently interested. I get many proposals here, and depending on my time, things can happen here too.
If we do not have appointments after dinner or did not have a pre-dinner session, then we have opportunities to fix something at dinner. We make an entry about 8.30 p.m. when most people are seated, and some have finished dinner, waiting for the entertainment. We take a walk three times around the dining area, to look who is interesting and available while giving those interested a chance to know that I am available. This walk is our hooker walk around. Once, we find a prospect; we ask their permission to join them.
A conversation starts and eventually veers towards our common interest, and we proceed from there. For regular visitors, the entertainment becomes a chore. (.30 to 11.00 is usually the most boring time if you are not interested in the entertainment. We make a quick exit at this time with our prospect and have our sessions until mid-night or as long as it lasts. If nothing has worked so far, then there is always an opportunity in the hot tub, after 12.00. But, by this time, usually I have had three sessions, so we don’t even go to the hot tub anymore. We hang around outside the Piano bar and make friends, or join the dance if it happens to be outside the Disco.
Do I need to say more? Now we are in our 11th year with two trips a year. We still make some appointments through the Forum, have great friends and love everyone who goes to Hedo for whatever is their mojo. I make no distinction between black, white, brown or oriental. No distinction in height, size, age cock-size or looks. I am interested in anyone who treats is clean, good smelling and treats me like a goddess. All my Hedo lovers have treated me with respect, have tried to please me with whatever works for them and have taken pleasure in giving rather than receiving. I salute them all.
Few anecdotes –
My husband is a cuckold. He likes to watch me have sex with other men and women. He records with the permission of the participants for our personal use only. Like they show in porn, he does not take out his cock to shag while I am moaning and writhing in the mouth or meeting the thrusts of a cock. He is mostly watching my facial expressions and the enjoyment that sweeps through my body and mind. He sometimes participates, if the guest invites him.
When I am with a guest, the guest and I belong to each other for that duration. Sometimes when I am moaning loud, and hissing and swishing and my mouth go dry, he gulps scotch and without disturbing anyone, pours it down my mouth from his. I do not belittle him or put a lock around his jewels. He does not touch the man or the woman, forget about licking his cum from my pussy. To me, he is the real cuckold and an altruistic one at that, who has fun when I have fun.
One Forum connection we had a date with, but we did not arrive until next day due to flight disruptions. My husband met this very young guy from Turkey, asked him for his interest, and he accompanied us to the room. We made love for over an hour and became friends. My husband looked up the Forum the next morning and found that he was the guy that had made the appointment. My husband met him at the tennis court and asked him about his appointment with the Sexy lady. Was he embarrassed, we repeated the date?
A young Frenchman under heavy influence of cocaine spent over 3 hours doing everything possible but could not ejaculate and so could not end. Having lost patience, I asked him to watch my husband do it to me. My husband did not have to wear a condom; he wanted to lick the cream from my pussy. After he licked all the cum, he got an erection and could finally come. Maybe he was bi. Next day he introduced us to his older friend and mentor, who laid out wine, cheese, and sex in a very French way and we had a threesome with my husband and him.
Two young male friends, said they do everything together. So we took them to our room and were having a foursome when one of our friends who didn’t know about our activities came to knock out our doors. We had to shoo him away, but the cat or the pussy was out of the bag.
A very young man was sitting next to me at lunch. I could not even think of doing anything with him and was trying to be a mother to him. After lunch, he says he is a cougar hunter and could he sleep with me? I had great sex with him and taught him a few tricks? All the English men I have been with, do not like to give oral but want it all the same. Coming from the same background, he was also reluctant but was willing to learn. I have since met him over four trips. The next time I met him, he said because he is willing to give the pussy a good lick, he is now very popular with married women where he lives in London.
Two brothers were visiting on their own; the elder one was a married man. We saw the younger one disappearing into someone’s room from the hot tub, and thought he was done for the day and made arrangements with the elder brother. He fixed an 11 p.m. time. The brothers shared this information, and the younger would not leave my side from then on. We had to take both of them, one after another.
A gentleman who we have met on every trip, dirty danced all night on the pool deck and gave me the most wonderful caressing, fondling and petting, with his wife keeping a close watch. His touch and caresses would make my knees weak until I hung on to him, and he would start all over again. His fingers were all over my pussy and ass, but he never fingered me in either place. It was like going back to dating before we were married. At the end of the dance, he took me to the beach chair nearby and licked me hungrily, until his wife had to come and separate him since he was crossing the limits she had permitted him.
Being asked by accompanied men at breakfast for a date in the evening, only with wife’s permission.
Sleeping with a real porn star and sharing his stories.
Sleeping with a celebrity singer, who had come for a professional show. There were many hanging around him; I don’t know how it happened. His staff came up to my husband and asked if I will sleep with him, and we said yes.
What is Missing
Any regrets – none except that condom is compulsory. I hope that someone will come up with a miracle STD preventive and I can have sex without the obstruction of a condom so that I can have unprotected sex with gay abandon.
Cuckolding with a couple is my next big fantasy. Have received subtle hints but so far a bi-virgin.
You have great advice already. Nothing more to add, except that sample one at a time – don’t rush it. Once you go to Hedo, you will return unless you make it so bad for yourself that there is no going back. Here are the baby steps:
Take a couple of days to feel naked around others without being self-conscious. Try to do everything you wish a third person to do to you between yourself in the open. After five you could do it anytime around the hot tub including open sex.
Once you are comfortable between yourself doing it in public, go on to the next steps.
Allow someone to grope in public. Take a break and consider your feelings
Allow someone to fondle, kiss and go as far as possible and what you are comfortable with without sex, take a break and consider your feelings.
If you are okay until here, you could go to soft and then full sex. That way you will leave yourselves room to retrace without going bang into the last before being ready for it and wondering what happened.
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